It’s easy for many women to get all scared about the typical adult match website. They think that they’re going to get raped. They think that there are all sorts of freaks and perverts that use these websites. Of course, I really can’t blame them because if you look at the typical media portrayal of online dating or online mobile dating apps, what kind of image do you see?
That’s right, it’s very, very predictable. You get an image that sells copies. You get an image that gets lots of traffic and clicks. Unfortunately, this image nine times out of ten has nothing to do with reality. You see, most of the guys and I’m talking about 99.9% of these types of websites are regular guys. These are doctors, lawyers, politicians, you name it. People with real jobs, real people. And they’re just looking for anonymous hookups.
The women that join are also real. These are soccer moms. These are chicks that live in the same area as you. They’re looking for the same thing. They’re looking for sex without any of the emotional strings attached.
Unfortunately, the mix gets all complicated when people start subscribing to these unrealistic portrayals of risks. All of a sudden, everybody’s a pervert. All of a sudden, everybody is a potential serial killer. It’s really hard to get an erection thinking that the chick that you’re talking to who is taking off her top might lop your head off with an axe. Do you see where I’m coming from?
So instead of focusing on the 0.0001 probability that this chick is going to blow you up with a bomb, focus on the higher chance that you may be in for a good time with her. Instead of her dropping down and exposing a bomb vest and blowing you to hell, maybe she’d drop down and do something more pleasurable. Do you see where I’m coming from?
Stop fixating on the risk and focus more on what you came for.